Helping you feel connected, inspired and fulfilled on your childfree journey

We are Childfree champions and celebrates childfree lives while providing training to help organisations foster truly inclusive workplaces.

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OUR COMMUNITY

“My eyes are filled with tears. Thank you for being our voice. What you're doing still holds a lot of meaning for many men as well, I believe.”

“Let me tell you how precious this community is to me and how amazing and caring the two of you host this space and inspire all of us! Thanks tons!”

“Thank you, from my bones, for creating this safe community and sharing so many resources and empowering validating stories. With a grateful heart 💛”

“Thank you so much for your podcast which I enjoy profoundly. I glean so much support and love and good ideas from your show I can't begin to express my gratitude to you two!”

“I have really enjoyed being part of this community and joining it was a highlight of my year. Here’s to being our fantastic selves going forwards xxx”

“Feeling grateful for this community of open minded and free thinking people.”

"Thank you for all that you do and for establishing this incredible community of like-minded souls who honoured their soul’s choice to be childfree in this lifetime. It’s comforting to know that there are others out there."

"I hope this space and community helps you to feel less lonely and more secure (It certainly has for me, especially in hard times)."

"I will forever be grateful that you took on this endeavor of creating a safe, supportive space, for childfree people."

"This inclusive CF community has been incredibly helpful as I’ve navigated life after infertility. I’m definitely embracing all that life without children has to offer… and it’s pretty great 💜"

"Thank you so much for creating this caring community ❤️"

“When I found out I couldn’t have children I thought it was the worst thing that could ever happen to me. I think it’s actually turned out to be one of the best decisions life made for me. Finding this project was part of that so thank you”

OUR COMMUNITY

“I’ve been wanting a hysterectomy for nearly 10 years.”

Ames, 28, USA

“I no longer have sex with my boyfriend for fear of getting pregnant”

Anonymous

“As a trans man, my debilitating period pain was extra awful due to dysphoria.”

Anonymous

“I'm glad to be living my life according to ME!”

Whitney, 40, USA

“I fought long and hard for my happiness and my freedom.”

Isabell, 33, Germany

“At age 57, I am childfree by choice with zero regrets.”

Melissa, 57, Canada

“I celebrate being childfree the same way people to do a pregnancy.”

Rachel, 39, Ireland

“I've never for a moment hesitated on or regretted my choice.”

Nadia, 39, Australia

“My life is all open horizons and that's all I want!”

Antonia, 44, Greece

“I'm a 'frequent flyer' at my ER.”

Aiemee, 38, USA

“Deep in my heart I know that I don't want to have kids.”

Karlijn, 25, Netherlands

“No matter what I stood to lose, I knew I would never be happy as a parent.”

Renée, 38, USA

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Natasha, UK

"As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

Cressida, Berlin

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

Ada, Berlin

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

Lydia, Greece

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

Kate, Germany

“I’m really, really living for the first time.”

Wear it with pride

PORTRAITS

"As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

Natasha, UK

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

Cressida, Berlin

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

Ada, Berlin

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

Lydia, Greece

“I’m really, really living for the first time.”

Kate, Germany

“I couldn’t have lived the hundred lives I’ve lived if I had a family.”

Blair, London

“Now I’m postmenopausal, it really is like I’m back to being 12 years old.”

Caroline, Montfort

“Don’t stress about biology so much.”

Jana, Berlin

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It's self-love.

OUR STORIES

OUR COMMUNITY

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MARY

“My choice to be childfree is important to me, because I have a very special relationship with my body.”

Anonymous

“I am now 75, have never changed my mind and have never even had a broody moment.”

WEAR IT WITH PRIDE

"As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

Natasha, UK

Wear it with pride

WEAR IT
WITH PRIDE

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PODCASTS

Episode 45

He doesn't want me to get a tubal ligation

What do you do when the pushback comes from your partner?

Episode 44

Living with Less: Getting Intentional and Essential

How to focus on what really matters to you!

Episode 43

AWA (Ask WAC Anything) Part 2: How To Live Your Best Childfree Life

How do you maintain friendships when you're childfree? What about growing older? All your questions answered!

Episode 42

AWA (Ask WAC Anything) Part 1: A Childfree Love Story

How did we meet? How's van life? All your questions answered!

Episode 41

Don’t fear regret, with Orna Donath

The author of Regretting Motherhood has good news for childfree folks!

Episode 40

Finding fulfilment, with 53-year-old childfree trailblazer Lydia

“When you realise who you are, everything becomes easier.”

Episode 39

How do you create your childfree future?

Finding YOUR life vision

Episode 38

We both wanted kids but I’ve changed my mind!

How does a couple talk about this?

Episode 37

How do you steer the conversation away from kids?

Can we please talk about something else? 🙏

Episode 36

Help! My coworkers keep asking if I have kids!

How do you deal with colleagues whose watercooler chat is... not cool?

Episode 35

Putting my life first, with Natasha den Dekker

What if you had to chose between your health, your birth family and your children yet to be?

Episode 34

Life done differently, with Lisa Jansen

Living her best solo vanlife!

MEET OUR FOUNDER

“Every childfree person deserves to feel seen, heard and connected to community.”

@wearechildfree_

Helping you feel connected, inspired and fulfilled on your childfree journey

We are Childfree champions and celebrates childfree lives while providing training to help organisations foster truly inclusive workplaces.

Childfree Inclusivity Training that Truly Transforms Workplace Culture​

NEW MASTERCLASS

Create Your Childfree Life Vision

Join this special live masterclass and start creating a fulfilling future that’s authentic to your childfree choice.

“I’ve been wanting a hysterectomy for nearly 10 years.”

“I no longer have sex with my boyfriend for fear of getting pregnant”

“As a trans man, my debilitating period pain was extra awful due to dysphoria.”

“I'm glad to be living my life according to ME!”

“I fought long and hard for my happiness and my freedom.”

“At age 57, I am childfree by choice with zero regrets.”

“I celebrate being childfree the same way people to do a pregnancy.”

“I've never for a moment hesitated on or regretted my choice.”

“My life is all open horizons and that's all I want!”

“I'm a 'frequent flyer' at my ER.”

“Deep in my heart I know that I don't want to have kids.”

“No matter what I stood to lose, I knew I would never be happy as a parent.”

The Childfree Holiday

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How To Be Childfree

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Natasha, UK

"As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

Cressida, Berlin

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

Ada, Berlin

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

Lydia, Greece

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

Kate, Germany

“I’m really, really living for the first time.”

"As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

“I’m really, really living for the first time.”

“I couldn’t have lived the hundred lives I’ve lived if I had a family.”

“Now I’m postmenopausal, it really is like I’m back to being 12 years old.”

“Don’t stress about biology so much.”

Explore topics

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MARY

“My choice to be childfree is important to me, because I have a very special relationship with my body.”

Anonymous

“I am now 75, have never changed my mind and have never even had a broody moment.”

WEAR IT WITH PRIDE

"As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

WEAR IT WITH PRIDE

Lorem ipsum dolor sit amet, consectetur adipiscing elit. Duis non dignissim nibh, mollis aliquet tellus.

He doesn't want me to get a tubal ligation

Living with Less: Getting Intentional and Essential

AWA (Ask WAC Anything) Part 2: How To Live Your Best Childfree Life

AWA (Ask WAC Anything) Part 1: A Childfree Love Story

Don’t fear regret, with Orna Donath

Finding fulfilment, with 53-year-old childfree trailblazer Lydia

How do you create your childfree future?

We both wanted kids but I’ve changed my mind!

How do you steer the conversation away from kids?

Help! My coworkers keep asking if I have kids!

Putting my life first, with Natasha den Dekker

Life done differently, with Lisa Jansen

MEET OUR FOUNDER

“Every childfree person deserves to feel seen, heard and connected to community.”​

LET'S KEEP IN TOUCH!

Get childfree stories to your inbox!

Childfree Inclusivity Training that Truly Transforms Workplace Culture

The
Childfree Holiday

Get exclusive childfree stories straight to your inbox.

WEAR IT
WITH PRIDE

“Every childfree person deserves to feel seen, heard and connected to community.”