WE ARE CHILDFREE

Helping you feel connected, inspired and fulfilled on your childfree journey

We are Childfree champions and celebrates childfree lives while providing training to help organisations foster truly inclusive workplaces.

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OUR COMMUNITY

"Thank you for all that you do and for establishing this incredible community of like-minded souls who honoured their soul’s choice to be childfree in this lifetime. It’s comforting to know that there are others out there."

"I hope this space and community helps you to feel less lonely and more secure (It certainly has for me, especially in hard times)."

"I will forever be grateful that you took on this endeavor of creating a safe, supportive space, for childfree people."

"This inclusive CF community has been incredibly helpful as I’ve navigated life after infertility. I’m definitely embracing all that life without children has to offer… and it’s pretty great 💜"

"Thank you so much for creating this caring community ❤️"

“When I found out I couldn’t have children I thought it was the worst thing that could ever happen to me. I think it’s actually turned out to be one of the best decisions life made for me. Finding this project was part of that so thank you”

“I’m so proud of being part of this community. 🙏🏻 and I’m so proud that I can tell everyone that I met a bunch of awesome people”

"Absolutely love your work it has honestly changed my life xx"

“After so many years of feeling ‘other’ I feel I've found a place I fit perfectly. Well done for creating such a kind and welcoming community x”

“Keep doing what you’re doing, you’re making such a huge difference!”

“It’s great that this community is here to support and cheer each other on, it’s a safe place where we can share our thoughts. I feel less alone because of it.”

“Thank you so much for sharing these stories with everyone. They are giving me permission to live a life of my own creation. So much gratitude for all you do❤️”

OUR COMMUNITY

“I like to think that the decision not to have children was a selfless one.”

Mary, 42, Australia

“The last thing I feel necessary is bringing my own child into this world.”

Gabriela, 30, Czech Republic

“I decided to prioritize my own health and healing rather than put my body through more trauma.”

Rebekah, 46, USA

“Your body, your choice - if you go abroad and pay.”

Anna, 39, Poland

“You have nothing if you can’t control your own body.”

Anonymous

“Being childfree isn't about what I'm giving up - it's about what I'm choosing.”

Laura, 41, USA

“Being childfree doesn’t mean I’m anti-children.”

Hekaya, 26, Kenya

“Following We are Childfree has helped me accept that it's okay to not have children.”

Anonymous

“I have never really stayed at a job longer than 2 years due to discrimination.”

Anonymous

“In my case, it was about circumstances.”

Anne-Claire, 43, Portugal

“I feel strong, independent and I know that I can count on my own strength to deal with anything in life.”

Fanny, 39, Greece

“I'm now into the 'elderly' age bracket, and I have never either wanted a child or regretted not having one.”

Anonymous

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Cressida, Berlin

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

Ada, Berlin

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

Lydia, Greece

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

Kate, Germany

“I’m really, really living for the first time.”

Blair, London

“I couldn’t have lived the hundred lives I’ve lived if I had a family.”

Wear it with pride

PORTRAITS

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

Cressida, Berlin

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

Ada, Berlin

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

Lydia, Greece

“I’m really, really living for the first time.”

Kate, Germany

“I couldn’t have lived the hundred lives I’ve lived if I had a family.”

Blair, London

“Now I’m postmenopausal, it really is like I’m back to being 12 years old.”

Caroline, Montfort

“Don’t stress about biology so much.”

Jana, Berlin

“I feel that if I truly want to be happy, there's no space in my life for kids.”

Georgina, Berlin

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ARTICLES

Newsletter Archive

Happy World Vasectomy Day!

Can you imagine it?

Opinion

Russia bans "propaganda" promoting childfree lifestyles

But we won't stand for it!

Opinion

How Trump’s politics is driving women toward permanent birth control

Can you imagine it?

Newsletter Archive

US Election - where are the childfree men?

Can you imagine it?

Newsletter Archive

What does your perfect day look like?

Can you imagine it?

Newsletter Archive

Create your Childfree Life Vision

What does your future look like?

Newsletter Archive

What about your friends?

We need deep connections!

Newsletter Archive

Selfish?

It's self-love.

Newsletter Archive

Maybe Baby?

Yet ANOTHER childfree stigma

Newsletter Archive

You Won't Regret It!

We promise

OUR STORIES

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MARY

“My choice to be childfree is important to me, because I have a very special relationship with my body.”

Anonymous

“I am now 75, have never changed my mind and have never even had a broody moment.”

WEAR IT WITH PRIDE

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

Cressida, Berlin

Wear it with pride

WEAR IT
WITH PRIDE

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PODCASTS

Episode 42

AWA (Ask WAC Anything) Part 1: A Childfree Love Story

How did we meet? How's van life? All your questions answered!

Episode 41

Don’t fear regret, with Orna Donath

The author of Regretting Motherhood has good news for childfree folks!

Episode 40

Finding fulfilment, with 53-year-old childfree trailblazer Lydia

“When you realise who you are, everything becomes easier.”

Episode 39

How do you create your childfree future?

Finding YOUR life vision

Episode 38

We both wanted kids but I’ve changed my mind!

How does a couple talk about this?

Episode 37

How do you steer the conversation away from kids?

Can we please talk about something else? 🙏

Episode 36

Help! My coworkers keep asking if I have kids!

How do you deal with colleagues whose watercooler chat is... not cool?

Episode 35

Putting my life first, with Natasha den Dekker

What if you had to chose between your health, your birth family and your children yet to be?

Episode 34

Life done differently, with Lisa Jansen

Living her best solo vanlife!

Bonus

Bonus Podcast: Ask WAC - How do you decide to be childfree?

We help a fencesitter with their childfree choice!

Bonus

Bonus Podcast: Ask WAC - Will I regret being childfree?

Everyone says you'll regret your decision - are they right?

Episode 33

Childfree was chosen for me, with Sari Botton

A Gen X icon on finding the “permission” not to be a mother.

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“Every childfree person deserves to feel seen, heard and connected to community.”

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