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“It's amazing to see a movement like this take shape and grow, so thank you for what you've built and are doing.”

“I love what you're doing and find it so liberating and amazing to see content like this out here that makes me feel good about the choice I've made to remain childfree.”

“I love how much positivity you're spreading and what a strong community you're already built. Now I think I can proud to be childfree: for being true to myself instead of doing what was expected of me.”

“You've already made me prouder and happier of who I am and therefore stronger when facing discriminating questions or comments by others. 💪💪💪”

“It’s so hard to find humans who either aren’t judgmental, will actually make time or who don’t have kids, and this community has been such a blessing to find other women in other countries feel the same way. Very validating.”

“My eyes are filled with tears. Thank you for being our voice. What you're doing still holds a lot of meaning for many men as well, I believe.”

“Let me tell you how precious this community is to me and how amazing and caring the two of you host this space and inspire all of us! Thanks tons!”

“Thank you, from my bones, for creating this safe community and sharing so many resources and empowering validating stories. With a grateful heart 💛”

“Thank you so much for your podcast which I enjoy profoundly. I glean so much support and love and good ideas from your show I can't begin to express my gratitude to you two!”

“I have really enjoyed being part of this community and joining it was a highlight of my year. Here’s to being our fantastic selves going forwards xxx”

“Feeling grateful for this community of open minded and free thinking people.”

"Thank you for all that you do and for establishing this incredible community of like-minded souls who honoured their soul’s choice to be childfree in this lifetime. It’s comforting to know that there are others out there."

PORTRAITS

“It was all men making decisions about my body.”

Roz, UK

“As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

Natasha, UK

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

Cressida, Berlin

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

Ada, Berlin

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

Lydia, Greece

“I’m really, really living for the first time.”

Kate, Germany

“I couldn’t have lived the hundred lives I’ve lived if I had a family.”

Blair, London

“Now I’m postmenopausal, it really is like I’m back to being 12 years old.”

Caroline, Montfort

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OUR STORIES

“I’ve been wanting a hysterectomy for nearly 10 years.”

Ames, 28, USA

“I no longer have sex with my boyfriend for fear of getting pregnant”

Anonymous

“As a trans man, my debilitating period pain was extra awful due to dysphoria.”

Anonymous

“I'm glad to be living my life according to ME!”

Whitney, 40, USA

“I fought long and hard for my happiness and my freedom.”

Isabell, 33, Germany

“At age 57, I am childfree by choice with zero regrets.”

Melissa, 57, Canada

“I celebrate being childfree the same way people to do a pregnancy.”

Rachel, 39, Ireland

“I've never for a moment hesitated on or regretted my choice.”

Nadia, 39, Australia

“My life is all open horizons and that's all I want!”

Antonia, 44, Greece

“I'm a 'frequent flyer' at my ER.”

Aiemee, 38, USA

“Deep in my heart I know that I don't want to have kids.”

Karlijn, 25, Netherlands

“No matter what I stood to lose, I knew I would never be happy as a parent.”

Renée, 38, USA

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Roz, UK

“It was all men making decisions about my body.”

Natasha, UK

“As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

Cressida, Berlin

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

Ada, Berlin

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

Lydia, Greece

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

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MARY

“My choice to be childfree is important to me, because I have a very special relationship with my body.”

Anonymous

“I am now 75, have never changed my mind and have never even had a broody moment.”

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“It was all men making decisions about my body.”

Roz, UK

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PODCASTS

Episode 47

External pressures or authentic desires?

Unplugging from the baby matrix!

Episode 46

Help! I’m losing my friends to parenthood

What do you when your friends have less time for you?

Episode 45

He doesn't want me to get a tubal ligation

What do you do when the pushback comes from your partner?

Episode 44

Living with Less: Getting Intentional and Essential

How to focus on what really matters to you!

Episode 43

AWA (Ask WAC Anything) Part 2: How To Live Your Best Childfree Life

How do you maintain friendships when you're childfree? What about growing older? All your questions answered!

Episode 42

AWA (Ask WAC Anything) Part 1: A Childfree Love Story

How did we meet? How's van life? All your questions answered!

Episode 41

Don’t fear regret, with Orna Donath

The author of Regretting Motherhood has good news for childfree folks!

Episode 40

Finding fulfilment, with 53-year-old childfree trailblazer Lydia

“When you realise who you are, everything becomes easier.”

Episode 39

How do you create your childfree future?

Finding YOUR life vision

Episode 38

We both wanted kids but I’ve changed my mind!

How does a couple talk about this?

Episode 37

How do you steer the conversation away from kids?

Can we please talk about something else? 🙏

Episode 36

Help! My coworkers keep asking if I have kids!

How do you deal with colleagues whose watercooler chat is... not cool?

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The Ultimate ChildfreeComeback Guide

“It was all men making decisions about my body.”

“As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

“I’m really, really living for the first time.”

“I couldn’t have lived the hundred lives I’ve lived if I had a family.”

“Now I’m postmenopausal, it really is like I’m back to being 12 years old.”

Childfree inclusivity training that transforms workplace culture

“I’ve been wanting a hysterectomy for nearly 10 years.”

“I no longer have sex with my boyfriend for fear of getting pregnant”

“As a trans man, my debilitating period pain was extra awful due to dysphoria.”

“I'm glad to be living my life according to ME!”

“I fought long and hard for my happiness and my freedom.”

“At age 57, I am childfree by choice with zero regrets.”

“I celebrate being childfree the same way people to do a pregnancy.”

“I've never for a moment hesitated on or regretted my choice.”

“My life is all open horizons and that's all I want!”

“I'm a 'frequent flyer' at my ER.”

“Deep in my heart I know that I don't want to have kids.”

“No matter what I stood to lose, I knew I would never be happy as a parent.”

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Roz, UK

“It was all men making decisions about my body.”

Natasha, UK

“As the only girl and an only child, there’s a lot of responsibility placed on you to carry on the family line, because for a lot of families, you’re not more than a womb.”

Cressida, Berlin

“At some point, I was just like: fuck it, I am different.”

Ada, Berlin

“I never felt like growing a baby inside of me.”

Lydia, Greece

“If there is something I regret, it is the fact that for so many years, I just didn’t know who I was.”

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MARY

“My choice to be childfree is important to me, because I have a very special relationship with my body.”

Anonymous

“I am now 75, have never changed my mind and have never even had a broody moment.”

WEAR IT WITH PRIDE

“It was all men making decisions about my body.”

WEAR IT WITH PRIDE

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External pressures or authentic desires?

Help! I’m losing my friends to parenthood

He doesn't want me to get a tubal ligation

Living with Less: Getting Intentional and Essential

AWA (Ask WAC Anything) Part 2: How To Live Your Best Childfree Life

AWA (Ask WAC Anything) Part 1: A Childfree Love Story

Don’t fear regret, with Orna Donath

Finding fulfilment, with 53-year-old childfree trailblazer Lydia

How do you create your childfree future?

We both wanted kids but I’ve changed my mind!

How do you steer the conversation away from kids?

Help! My coworkers keep asking if I have kids!

MEET OUR FOUNDER

“Every childfree person deserves to feel seen, heard and connected to community.”​

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The
Ultimate Childfree
Comeback Guide

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“Every childfree person deserves to feel seen, heard and connected to community.”