Childfree Elder

STORIES

Celebrating the lives and sharing the experiences of older childfree people - because your stories matter.

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ABOUT THE PROJECT

Childfree elder stories are rarely seen or heard.
This project exists to change that.

Older childfree people show us what’s possible when you follow your own path. Your lives offer reassurance, perspective and hope – especially to younger folks.

We collect and share these stories in different ways: short written reflections, recorded conversations, and portrait photographs.

Some stories are shared publicly, others anonymously. All are treated with care and respect. Every story helps someone somewhere feel less alone.

WE NEED YOUR STORY​

We would love to hear from you if you are:

We welcome stories from people all over the world. You don’t need to be on social media, speak on camera, or share your name. You don’t need to feel like your life is “impressive” – your life already matters.

If this sounds like you, please share your story. If it sounds like someone you know, tell a friend.

HOW TO GET INVOLVED

You choose how and how much you’d like to share

1. Share a short story

Share a short written reflection about your life and what being childfree has meant to you. You can share anonymously or with your name.

2. Join a podcast conversation

Take part in a relaxed, guided audio conversation. These are recorded remotely and shared as podcast episodes.

3. Take part in a portrait session

Be photographed as part of our project celebrating childfree elders. Portraits are taken during our travels or with trusted local photographers.

WHAT HAPPENS NEXT

When you fill out the form, we read every submission. We’ll be in touch if there’s a next step or a good fit for a podcast conversation or portrait session at that time.

Some stories are shared quickly, others may be held for later. Not every submission leads to immediate publication, and that doesn’t lessen its importance. All your stories matter.

Share your story

And help change how the world sees childfree lives!

WHO WE ARE

This project is created by photographer Zoë Noble, and her husband and producer, James Glazebrook, who have spent years listening to and sharing childfree stories.

We’re childfree ourselves, and this work comes from a deep belief that older childfree lives deserve to be seen, respected, and remembered.

Every story is shared with care, consent, and choice. Nothing is published without permission.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Anyone aged 60 or older who identifies as childfree — whether by choice or circumstance — is welcome to share. You can submit your story publicly or anonymously.

No — you can share anonymously if that’s what you prefer.

We collect written reflections, podcast conversations, and portrait sessions that share personal experiences of life without children.

Stories may be shared on the website, podcast, social media, or as portraits, always with care and respect. Some may be published right away; others may be held for future use. One day, we may also compile stories into a book, but this is a future goal and not guaranteed.

No. You don’t need social media accounts or to appear on camera — your story can be shared in any format you’re comfortable with.

 

Absolutely — you’re encouraged to share the invitation with others who might want to contribute.

There’s no fixed deadline — submissions are reviewed on an ongoing basis.

“I'm now into the 'elderly' age bracket, and I have never either wanted a child or regretted not having one.”

Anonymous

“I just never felt the desire.”

Karen, 66, Mexico

“I was gigantically relieved. I felt I'd been given a blessed reprieve.”

Anne, 70, USA

“I have lived a full life of service to my community.”

Tammi, 64, USA

“I’m 73. I decided to be ‘childfree’ before it was even a word!”

Deborah, 73, USA

“I've never felt incomplete or like something was missing.”

Christine, 63, UK

“I am dancing again. I am loving life.”

Jill, 70, USA

“About 50 years after deciding to be childfree, I have never had one moment of regret.”

Colin, 76, Malaysia

“Some of my colleagues were just downright offensive.”

Lena, 60, UK

“I have never regretted my decision.”

Laurie, 65, USA

“I am obligated to no one, and no one is obligated to me.”

Dana-Lyne, 61, USA

“I have never regretted not having children.”

Rita, 67, USA

“I keep waiting for ‘the day I'm going to regret this’.”

Patty, 67, USA

“Never liked children from age 7 to 75.”

Lynn, 75, UK

“I have been committed to living childfree for a long time.”

Kathe, 71, USA

“I am now 75, have never changed my mind and have never even had a broody moment.”

Anonymous

“I left the surgery with the clear impression he hoped I would regret the decision. I never did!”

Margaret, 70, UK

“There are multitudes of experiences that I probably wouldn't have had if I'd had children.”

Anonymous

“I didn't want to inflict the emotional torture of depression on another human being.”

Judy, 70, USA

“I grieve the loss of my childhood. I do not grieve for any children I might have had.”

Georgellen, 61, USA