βIn the Latin culture you are supposed to get married and have kids.β
βPeople say, βgive it time, you will start craving for themββ¦ as if kids were ice cream or a brownie.β
Ever since I can remember I havenβt wanted children. I never played with dolls, or enjoyed hanging with small kids. I remember being 12 and saying out loud to my friends: βI donβt want to be a momβ.
Iβm now 33 and that hasnβt changed.
My decision is respected by some close to me, but also very unpopular for most people.
In the Latin culture you are supposed to get married and have kids. I was lucky enough to find a partner who supports and shares my decision. But his family would never approve our decision, that has been hard. Weβve been married for 2 years now and just after the wedding we started getting the question βwhen are you going to have kids?β When we say we donβt want kids the most common answer is βgive it time, you will start craving for themββ¦ as if kids were ice cream or a brownie, I donβt get it.
Not wanting kids doesnβt mean I dislike them, but it has been difficult to find other childfree friends. All around us couples are having kids or currently pregnant. Sometimes it can be a bit lonely, thatβs why Iβm thankful for this space and other childfree communities.
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